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		<title>It&#8217;s Never Easy to Say Goodbye</title>
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<p>This is really the first part of two posts that I will write on the subject &#8211; the second coming in a few weeks after things have settled down just a bit. Last week I had the unpleasant task of telling the two partners where I currently work that after 11 years employment I was resigning my position and taking a job with another firm. This was a difficult conversation to have, not because things went badly &#8211; just the opposite &#8211; because things have gone so well. I love my job and I really like the people I work with &#8211; they are all exceptional individuals and I have a great deal of respect for the skills they bring to the table. That&#8217;s part of what made this process of resigning so difficult.</p>
<p>Another reason leaving my current job was painful was because I have been with this firm for 11 years &#8211; and they have only existed for 15 years. I&#8217;ve been there for almost the entire growth and development of the firm. I&#8217;ve been there for some of our greatest successes, seen people come and go, been through some really good years and some not so great years. That&#8217;s the thing with small firms &#8211; the good ones are like your family &#8211; and quitting the firm is like quitting the family.</p>
<p>I am leaving my job because of an exceptional opportunity was presented to me to continue my growth and development as an architect. I didn&#8217;t go looking for it &#8211; it found me and it was a great fit. I thought a long time about how I would walk into the office and give my resignation, the people this act would impact, the clients I feel like I am abandoning, the projects I am leaving behind &#8230; incomplete. I lost a lot of sleep over it &#8211; if you&#8217;re in the creative services industry you probably know what I mean. Working on the projects I have been fortunate enough to spend time on, getting to know the people who will eventually call them &#8220;home&#8221; has been just another aspect of misery associated with leaving my job. I don&#8217;t think for one minute that anyone will begrudge me for leaving, in fact, I am quite sure that they will all be very happy for me &#8211; that&#8217;s just another part of what makes this hurt.</p>
<p>I thought about making this post about how to professionally go about quitting your job &#8211; but it&#8217;s too soon (but I&#8217;ll write about it eventually). I am excited for the change but saddened at the same time &#8230; it&#8217;s complicated.</p>
<p>But it&#8217;s still the good kind of complicated.</p>
<p>I decided to write today just to let everyone know that there will be some changes &#8211; the partners had last week to let anyone they wanted to personally tell know what was happening and now it&#8217;s my turn. My last day at my current job will be June 14th &#8211; that will give me 5 weeks to handle the transition of my projects to other capable people in the office. Things will continue on here at Life of an Architect &#8211; hopefully better than ever. In the meantime, wish me luck! Once I make the move, I&#8217;ll write part 2 of this post and let everyone know where I&#8217;m at and some of the details behind the move.</p>
<p>Cheers,</p>
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